Wednesday, February 8, 2012
5 Things Most hospices regret
The feeling regret that people in this fluid situation really worth sharing for us to ponder.
After many years with the work of patient care, the Australian nurse, Bronnie Ware has recorded five regrets most common in people dying she had been finalized. Bronnie intimacy with patients has led her to become friends with them. They are willing to share her deepest thoughts and truest. Bronnie found that men often regret the effort on the slope, while most others are constantly torment: "I wish you the courage to live a life true to yourself and not people want to live "...
Inspired by this discovery of his small, Bronnie wrote a book entitled The Top Five Regrets Of The Dying: A Life Transformed By The Dearly Departure (In the regret of dying: life through lens of those loved ones are retired from life). Author shares, "my patients are in late stage and decided to go home, finish treatment. At the current time we shared together so special. People are more matured in the face of his own death. Witness the changes in them has given me a lot of sense.
Everyone experiences emotions very diverse, such as denial, fear, anger, remorse, and further denies that even the paddling. But everyone has found the peace of mind before entering into eternity. "
According Bronnie, when asked about any regrets in life is the best answer as follows: 1. I wish you the courage to really live life, not his life that people desire.
This is the most common regret of all people. When people realize that their lives are about to end and can see clearly what has passed, they will easily see how much your dream as well just stop at dreams. Most people can not make half their dreams and to die knowing that that's their choice. Bring health to the freedom that few people realize until they are no longer new health more poignant.
2. I wish I did not work too hard
This is the best feeling headache of my male patients each animal care. They miss their children and youth of many moments spent with your spouse. Women also spoke of regrets this but most of the older generation, many female patients are not the breadwinner. All men that I really care all regret spent most of his life on the treadmill work.
3. I wish you the courage to express yourself Many suppress their feelings to bring peace to others. As a result they exist trivial and never become a person they really want. Therefore, many people with diseases related to bitterness and resentment that they have to suffer.
4. I wish I had kept in touch with friends
People often do not realize all the meaning of old friends until the last days of life and then they absolutely can not do anything. Many people try to run their own lives and to love you lose precious time. Many people deeply regret not taking the time and effort with your friends. Everyone will remember your friends when they are dying.
5. I wish I was letting myself be more happy surprise,
this is the most common regret. Many people do not realize that ultimately, happiness is a choice. They are trapped in old habits. This has framed their lives. Fear of change that they have to pretend to others and yourself
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